Best 10 Books for Becoming More Assertive in Life and Work

"The Assertiveness Workbook by Randy J. Paterson 'Assertiveness is not what you do, it's who you are.' 'When you say yes to others, make sure you're not saying no to yourself.' 'Learning to say ‘no’ is one of the most powerful tools of self-respect.' 'Assertive communication respects both your rights and those of others.' 'The more we practice asserting ourselves, the easier it becomes.' Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend 'You get what you tolerate.' 'Boundaries define us. They define what is me and what is not me.' 'We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing.' 'No is a complete sentence.' 'Healthy boundaries are not walls.'"

"Dare to Lead by Brené Brown 'Clear is kind. Unclear is unkind.' 'Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it’s having the courage to show up.' 'Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen.' 'Speak truth to bullshit. Be civil.' 'Choose courage over comfort.' Radical Candor by Kim Scott 'Care personally. Challenge directly.' 'Radical Candor is guidance and feedback that’s both kind and clear.' 'Being direct saves time and builds trust.' 'Silence and inaction are forms of communication too.' 'It’s not mean—it’s clear.'"

"The Power of a Positive No by William Ury 'Saying no is about protecting what matters most to you.' 'A Positive No is rooted in respect—for yourself and for the other person.' 'Every powerful yes requires a thousand nos.' 'You have the right to say no—gracefully and firmly.' 'No can be the beginning of a better yes.' Crucial Conversations by Kerry Patterson et al. 'Speak when it matters most.' 'People who are skilled at crucial conversations create conditions where everyone feels safe to talk.' 'Silence and violence are both signs of a failed conversation.' 'Start with heart—work on yourself first.' 'Make it safe, then speak your truth.'"

"No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover 'Nice Guys are anything but nice.' 'You are responsible for your needs. It's not someone else's job.' 'Real honesty builds real relationships.' 'Stop seeking approval—start seeking truth.' 'You can’t be truly loved unless you are truly known.' Your Perfect Right by Robert E. Alberti & Michael L. Emmons 'Assertiveness is standing up for your own rights without violating the rights of others.' 'You have the right to say no without feeling guilty.' 'Being assertive leads to stronger relationships.' 'Assertiveness is a skill anyone can learn.' 'You are your best advocate.'"

"How to Be Yourself by Ellen Hendriksen 'You don’t have to fake confidence—you can grow it.' 'Being your authentic self is your greatest strength.' 'Confidence comes from action, not perfection.' 'You don’t need to be fearless—just brave enough.' 'Speak up, even if your voice shakes.' Presence by Amy Cuddy 'Tiny tweaks can lead to big changes.' 'Don’t fake it till you make it. Fake it till you become it.' 'Presence is the state of being attuned to and able to comfortably express our true thoughts and feelings.' 'Our bodies change our minds.' 'Expanding our physical posture expands our psychological presence.'"